Hey readers! It’s been a while; hasn’t it?
If you are a long time follower and reader, thanks for waiting. If you are a newbie here, thanks for giving me a few minutes of your time.

Life has been life-ing. Between working, mother-ing, wife-ing, daughter-ing and everything else; your girl has had her hands full. But I knew that it was time to get back to myself and do other things I love like this blog!
Not only have a just been dealing with a full plate but I have also been feeling stuck on how to move my business forward. During my hiatus, I was teetering back and forth on how to make changes.
Should I continue selling handmade pieces? Should I keep the boutique open? Should I completely stop blogging and pursue other passions? Change the name? Change the content?
I have been thinking a lot about what’s next. And although I don’t have it all figured out, some changes have been made. But change is good, right?
One big change is that you will no longer see links or products to the boutique. I know that you loved to shop from it but I decided to close it. I enjoyed it too but I just wasn’t seeing the revenue that I expected. When I compared it to all of the work I was doing to keep it going it just didn’t add up. It pained me to close it. But it had to be done. I thought about it long and hard but decided it was time for a serious pivot. On to bigger and better things. More about that when the time is right.
Another decision I made is to stop offering custom dresses. I’ve had some of the worst experiences in life making custom dresses. I shared one of the experiences on the blog before. Now that I think about it. The last custom customer from hell is what made me go on a hiatus. It wasn’t worth the stress. People wanted everything, made by hand for pennies and thought the dress would somehow magically make them look like Beyonce. I just couldn’t put myself through that hell anymore. My peace is everything to me. No amount of money will allow me to disrupt it again.
There are still other things I’m figuring out but I’ll be sharing the journey along the way. I don’t feel the need to hide until I come up with my next “thing”. I missed y’all too much for that!
It feels so good to be back! Don’t worry…you can still expect great content about fashion, style, fitness, life, and all things fearless. But better.
I just wanted to pop in with a quick update to let you know that I’m still here and now better than ever. You can expect continuous content just like the old days.
If you missed me too, let me know in the comment!
Stay Fearless 💋

There is life beyond blogging and I honestly don’t know how some bloggers manage to post daily, as well as Instagram AND juggle real life! I do enjoy the blogging community but it can be too much stress for me because I teach dance and have other commitments which I also enjoy as well as mudane chores that no one will do except me.
Sorry to hear about your awful experiences making custom dresses. People can be so mean. Peace is more important than money!
Blessings!
❤️carmen
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I have no idea how people are able to juggle it all either. I enjoy the blogging community too but I’m not going to stress myself as much as I did before. Especially since my life outside of blogging is awesome and not stressful at all!
You’re right about people being mean. It’s just not worth it to me. I choose peace and happiness. Teaching dance sounds like fun and a great way to connect with people. Thanks so much for commenting!
Stay fearless 💋
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