I say this all of the time and I will say it again…living fearlessy is not easy.  It is something that takes effort every, single day.  Accepting what life throws at you without making any effort to change it is easy.  Giving up on goals and running away from your dreams is a piece of cake.  Feeling the fear and doing it anyway…not so much.  These tips should help you make 2018 your most fearless year yet!

Step Out Of Your history & Into Your Destiny 

So you have made some mistakes in the past…who hasn’t?!  If you let your past mistakes determine your future, you will never be able to progress.  Find your destiny by leaving that crap in the past.  You can’t change it.  Focus on living in the future!

K.I.M. – Keep It Moving

Your decision to live fearlessy means changes are bound to happen.  Bold, exciting life events  like changing jobs, moving to a foreign place, leaving a bad relationship, starting a business are bound to happen.  One thing you must know about making these changes is that everyone will have an opinion about it.  Unsolicited advice will be coming from family, friends, co-workers, strangers and everyone in between.  People will put their fears off on you without even knowing it.   Not sharing so much or even cutting off people might be necessary to keep you on track.  No matter their thoughts remember you goals.  Cut the haters out of your life and keep it moving!

Surround Yourself With People You Want To Be Like

This tip goes hand and hand with K.I.M.  Maybe they have built a successful business or you admire the relationship they have with their spouse.  Perhaps they are ambitious or fitness fanatics.  You can’t go wrong surrounding yourself with people who motivate you.

Think About What You Add To The Room 

Walking into a room can be overwhelming, especially when you don’t know anyone.  This is a surefire why to shake your confidence a bit.  But instead of focusing on that; think about what you add to the room.   For instance, at business/professional events your experience as a stylist makes you an asset at a fashion show.  Your welcoming smile makes you approachable at a networking event.  Focus on the what you do add to the room rather than your fears.

Be What You Are Missing To Yourself  

Love yourself and be your own biggest fan.  Take yourself to the movies.  Enjoy a nice dinner alone.  Don’t wait for others to do it for you.  You will find people being drawn to you because of your positive, fearless energy.  Which in turn could influence them to want to feel the same type of energy.  Your vibe really does affects your tribe.

When it is all said and done it all boils down to the fact that fear isn’t going anywhere. The feeling can pop up at any minute.  The question isn’t; “will I be afraid?”.  It is “how are you going to let it affect you?”  These tips will help you guide through your fearless life with ease.  2018….we are ready for you!

Thoughts??  Let me know in the comments…

Stay Fearless 💋