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  • 9 Damn Near Free V-Day Ideas (If You Don’t Have A Babysitter)

    9 Damn Near Free V-Day Ideas (If You Don’t Have A Babysitter)

    In a few weeks, Valentine’s Day will be here. It seems like we just kissed our boo for New Years, doesn’t it?

    No matter how quickly it arrived, it’s almost here so let’s celebrate! For me, V-Day is going to be alot different than in years past. I mean yes…there’s COVID. But I also have a 20 month old son who will be celebrating the day with my husband and I. Which to be honest…I’m totally happy with because he’s most definitely my valentine.

    This just means that we have to get creative when it comes to romance. But that’s BEEN a thing since he’s arrived. Sooo, if you find yourself planning a day for your SO and them babies, you might want to continue reading. Here are some ideas on how you and your bae can still share special moments on February 14th.

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    1. Each of you write out 10 questions you want to know about eachother that you don’t know. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together. There’s always something new to learn.

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    2. Search for a recipe for a good item that neither of you have made before. And cook it together.

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    3. Turn your living room into a nightclub. All you need is a playlist and cocktails. You can even dress up like you’re going out. Then dance the night away. (And there’s no need for a designated driver.)

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    4. Once the kids go to bed, turn your bedroom into a spa. Add soothing music, face masks, warm oil to give eachother a massage, and some candles.

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    5. Turn it into family game day. Pick a board game that everyone can play. Don’t forget favored snacks, fruity drinks for the kids, and adult drinks for you.

    Doing a vision board

    6. Plan your future with a vision board. It might not sound romantic. But planning your year together can be very sexy!

    Watching Movies at Home

    7. Make it a movie night. Let each person pick a rom-com you want to see and spend the night binging on them.

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    8. Print out photos from your phone. Then spend the night putting the pictures in photo albums. How romantic would it be to reminisce on what was going on when you took the photos.

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    9. Create scavenger hunt with clues that your boo will find throughout the day. And make the “prize” YOU after the kids are in the bed.

    Any of these sound like something you would do?! Let me know in the comments…

    Stay Fearless 💋

  • V-Day Date Ideas When You’re Staying Home And On A Budget

    Valentines Day shouldn’t be the reason you are doing something special for your partner. There are so many ways to show love to those you love without spending a dime. Although, I understand wanting to turn it up a notch just because it’s V-day.

    During these current times, we all feel the need to save a dollar or two. Never know when you might need it. With that in mind, keeping V-Day budget friendly is such a great idea. So, if staying at home and saving a buck is on your agenda.

    Take a look at these date ideas for you and your boo…

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    Paint – Look online for photos or artwork that align with your interests such as musics, travel, fashion, etc. Head to your local craft store for a pack of canvas, paint, and paint brushes. Display the images you found and paint them while sipping on your favorite cocktail.

    Foreign language

    New language – Learning something new together is always a good bonding experience. Search for foreign language classes online and make V-day your first lesson together.

    Playing charades

    Sexy Charades – Write out sexy movies, actions, songs, that you can act out during charades. Turn the heat up with a sexy prize each time you get a correct answer.

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    New Recipe – Research a new recipe, pour up a glass, and turn on some music. This will make for a great time. For sure!

    Eating with a blindfold

    Eat blindly – Blindfold eachother with a scarf. Place familiar and unfamiliar foods in unlabeled dishes. Have your partner guess what they are eating. The winner gets to pick a sexy prize.

    Have special plans?? Let me know in the comments…

    Stay Fearless 💋

  • Is Valentines Day Overrated?

    Is Valentines Day Overrated?

    In a little less than two weeks, Valentines Day, will be here. Although, I love an excuse to get dressed up and go out, I must admit that I’ve recently been pondering the thought…is Valentines Day overrated?

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    There was a time when I put a lot of stress on myself on Valentines Day. Things were different then. Before when I was just dating; I didn’t care if I got anything or not. Then after meeting my fiancé, we were in a long distance relationship, so the flowers sent to the office and expensive bags felt like necessary gifts. Seeing the flowers and carrying the bags made me feel like we were together. We didn’t get to see each other everyday. Therefore, those gestures meant everything to me.

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    Fast forward to today and things have changed. I don’t know about your Valentines Day but I can sum up how mine normally goes. My fiancé and I wake up saying, “Happy Valentines Day” to each other (if we remember). Then, if we both have to work, that is exactly how the first part of the day is spent…working. After work, we resolve the daily dilemma.

    What’s for dinner? Going out or eating in? What to stream on tv? What to drink (wine, or Saki 🤔).

    This is a typical day for us when we don’t have plans. Spending time together at the end of each day is the priority.

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    The only thing that differs on V-Day, these days, is that we might exchange cards. He may even bring flowers home. But whether he does or doesn’t…I’m great. Love is shown to me 364 days a week. There’s nothing he can do on this day that would make me feel more loved or appreciated. Love is an action. It’s something that should be displayed everyday not just once a year. And please don’t bring me a big box of chocolates! Who wants extra calories as a gift?? No thanks!

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    You don’t need a special day to spend special time with your bae in a sexy dress.  I realized that love is an all day; everyday thing. Not a once a year thing. If you’re only feeling loved on Feb. 14th?? 🤔 Just saying.

    What are your thoughts on Valentines Day?! Let me know in the comments…

    Stay Fearless 💋