The Daring Jacket was released a few weeks back. And it’s one of my favorite new pieces in the collection. (I feel like I always say that!). But it’s true. The print is amazing, I love anything with dramatic sleeves, and it’s lightweight enough to wear any time of the year.
I’m always preaching about considering ways you can style a piece for buying it. If you can’t wear it multiple ways; what’s the point??
I thought I’d help you do some of the styling work this time. Here are 3 ways you can style the Daring Jacket.
The handcrafted Daring Jacket is versatility at its best!! Remember, Fashion Not Fear pieces are limited so shop it while it’s’ still available. Which is your favorite look? Let me know in the comments…
There are some serious benefits to finding your signature style. To name a few:
Online shopping is much easier.
It helps to build one hell of a capsule collection! (Because all of your pieces can be styled together.)
Saves you time on planning outfits for events (Because you know what works.)
Now, that the surface has been scratched on the benefits. Let’s take a look at how to harness your signature style.
Unleashing the beast is much easier than you might think and can be broken into 4 main categories: Fit, Fabric, Feelings, and Accentuation.
FIT
If the fit is off; you might as well stay at home. Being real about your size is important in obtaining your signature style. You can buy a size 8 but if you wear a 12; then the fit on the 8 just won’t do. And that’s okay! Size doesn’t matter, fit does.
Georgia Peach Dress – Drusilla Shay
There seems to be a misconception that wearing something really tight with make you look smaller. But that’s completely wrong! The opposite happens. The only thing wearing something too small does is push what was supposed to fit comfortably in that skirt somewhere else. You end up with a belly roll you didn’t have before. Get measured, try on, purchase made-to-measure pieces…do whatever necessary to ensure a proper fit. Wearing your signature style should not feel uncomfortable.
Fabric
This is probably one of the most underrated elements in garments for shoppers. See it, like it, buy it…is usually how it goes. But taking an extra minute to analyze the fabric will help you tremendously.
Gallant Dress
Touch the fabric…
Does it stretch? Is it transparent (when it shouldn’t be)? Are the seams falling apart? Does it feel cheap? When buying online; how does the store describe the fabric? Will it feel comfortableon your skin?
You won’t regret taking the time to check out the fabric. Think about wearing a pair of white pants that are made from fabric so thin that you can your underwear? Not cute. 🤷🏽♀️
Feelings
How does the look make you feel? It’s that simple. Wearing something that makes you feel good changes your walk, talk, pushes your shoulders back, and your head up.
Always Royal Skirt
I always feel better about life when I’m wearing something that I love. How about you?
Accentuation
What’s your favorite part of your body? Hips, butt, tummy, legs, maybe your cleavage is amazing…whatever it is; this is the area you should accentuate.
Lipstick Top
As a matter of fact, all of your styles should accentuate that area. Here are some styling tips to help highlight your hotspots.
Best ways to accentuate cleavage: v-necks, scoop necks, leaving some buttons open on a top, and sheer tops.
Best ways to accentuate your waist: fit n’ flare silhouettes, peplums; accessorizing with a belt, tucking in the front hem of a shirt, tie back tops, and cropped styles.
Best ways to accentuate your legs: short dresses and skirts, wearing high heels, fishnets, skirts/dresses with splits, and high low hems.
Best ways to accentuate shoulders & arms: tanks, strapless, and off the shoulder styles.
Best ways to accentuate butt: bodycon dresses & skirts and belts to pull in waist.
Smiley Face Bag
Bonus tip: Confidence and a Smile. They make everything look better!
Thoughts on these tips or want to add your own?? Let me know in the comments…
You don’t have to be a regular guest at any number of the fashion weeks across the globe to be in the know about how your dress sense can be perceived. In fact, you don’t even have to be the savviest shopper to know that. You know that the things that you buy for your wardrobe will be sending out messages to those around you. You may even know that everything down to the colour of the items that you wear can say things about you and who you are; clothing has that effect. We live in a world where we are told on a daily basis not to judge others, not to take things at face value and not to put a story to a face until we’ve spoken to them. We are told this while at the same time being shown how to dress, how to stand and how to speak. Our clothes, our hairstyles and even our makeup sends powerful messages to those around us. We use our style to project exactly what we want people to see.
For example, you wouldn’t wear a white dress to a wedding; the bride has that privilege and as a guest you would know that white would upstage the bride. You wouldn’t wear a jeans and sandals to an important business meeting either, because the image you would be projecting is one that is casual and not bothered about the seriousness of the meeting. It’s all in those early morning choices that you make. Every woman out there knows that there is power in Billini shoes over flip flops, so which would you choose to wear to a meeting? It definitely wouldn’t be the flip flops! Everything from our personal lives to our professional lives is impacted when we make the conscious decision to dress in the morning. Men are often – surprisingly – more self-conscious than women when it comes to clothing choices. As times change and move forward, there is now a pressure on them to dress more metrosexual and on trend than ever before. Whether you are a man or a woman, though, the choices that you make when you wake in the morning have more to say about you and your self-image than even you may know. The colours you pick may subconsciously reflect your mood for the day; this in turn will affect the way that people treat you. The clothes you choose can even influence a job interview.
It’s not always been this way, though. Clothes are now about our fashion choices and style trends, whereas they’ve previously just been something to wear that was in keeping with the time. Early years shows that clothes were made to keep us dry and warm, which in turn kept us safe from illness. They’re no longer just a practical item that we wear in public; they’re a social statement. They affect the way that we view ourselves and even impacting our self-esteem. There are still some societies where clothing is seen as an indication of our social status and wealth status; think kings and queens in opulent gowns and robes. Think $2000 suits that are personally tailored. These types of clothes can show off wealth, because those on a budget aren’t going to be thinking about $2000 suits when trying to put bread on the table.
Your clothes can say an awful lot about you, that much is established, and we’ve all done that quick side-eye and judging someone based on their clothing style. We wouldn’t see someone in slouch pants and a backward cap as wealthy and a CEO of a company, but that is a big generalisation. So, what does your own style say about you to the world around you?
The Repeater. If you are picking out the same styles of outfit every morning, you’re either feeling hugely uninspired or you’re a parent anticipating baby sick down your clothes. You may not realise it, but this uniform of the same styles every day (let’s go with jeans and tees) is going to send out signals to others that there is a lack of inspiration there. You want to be able to show people that you know how to dress for yourself and that you plan to be a little quirky sometimes, so add a flower to your hair, a funky belt or crazy socks to splash a little of the fun side of your personality.
The Rainbow. Blue jeans, red top, yellow belt, green shoes, black jacket, orange jewellery: all of these things have a place in a wardrobe but having them all together on the same outfit basically shows off to others that you haven’t a clue how you feel that day. Wearing colourful outfits says a lot about you but sticking to individual colours is far better for your look and how you inspire others.
The Solid Black. Black is a fashion colour; it’s slimming, it’s versatile, it exudes taste, but it’s also depressing sometimes! You can be very sophisticated in black, but you can also imply that you are closed off and serious. Of course, this could be the very look that you are trying to convey. However, if you want to be more approachable, it could help you to tone down the solid colour and break it up. Black pants look great with a tropical coloured top, so break the colours apart and you can still look like a professional.
The Designer. Gucci, Louboutin, Versace; big names, even bigger price tags. If your wardrobe is full of labels, you could be two things; very wealthy, and very insecure. Caring about what people think of you is the downfall for most. It’s nice to have nice things but try not to mix all those names together in one outfit. You want to show people that you’re more than just the designers that you wear.
Before you get dressed every day, think about what you want to tell people with your outfit. Then go out there and rock it!
FNF is all about celebrating fearless woman everywhere! But living fearless is no small feat. There is certainly levels to this. One of the ways to fuel fearlessness in woman is by encouraging you to live in fashion not fear. Simply put…wear what you what, when you want, how you want; without fear of what anyone has to say about it. If you wake up Monday morning and decide to wear a tulle midi skirt to the office instead of your signature black slacks, then do it! I say, hell yea, to wearing lace gloves just because. Why yes! that sheer top does look amazing with your denim mini skirt! Although this may all seem like basic style decisions to you, it’s not that easy for some people in the world. There are certain areas of the world where showing your knees can land you in some serious trouble. That means no denim cutoffs, can you imagine? Personally, I would do anything for the right dress…damn near. But a baggy orange jumpsuit with flip-flops isn’t exactly my idea of setting a trend. So, you better believe I follow these fashion rules to the tee.
Here are 9 reasons why you should be grateful to live in fashion not fear.
Over 450 Iranians were arrested for committing fashion crimes on Snapchat and Instagram.
📷 by Peter Hershey
There are Islamic countries that require women, by law, to conceal their entire body in public or in the presence of any adult males outside of their family.
In Qatar, a law was established that punishes and forbids anyone from wearing revealing or indecent clothes. They even have an organization that created a campaign that targeted those who are not covering their shoulders and knees. As well as those whos’ clothing is tight or transparent.
(Not actual sign)
In Dubai, there are signs displayed at some malls and shopping centers indicating their dress code. Shoulders and knees must be covered and no revealing clothes are allowed. As a matter of fact, breaking the law could get you a warning or you can get arrested.
📸 – caldwell.com
In the first decade of the 21st century, there was some controversy in some southern U.S. states over sagging pants. The style was banned in some places.
In areas of Iran, women must cover their head with a scarf and wear trousers or a floor length skirt.
📸 Allef Vinicius
In Morocco, the Foreign & Commonwealth Office (FCO) recommends dressing modestly. Some consider it disrespectful to show your knees and shoulders.
Indian Woman 📸 Oriol Casas
In Saudi Arabia, Saudi women cannot appear in public without their heads covered.
I lived in Izmir, Turkey, for a year. During that time, my family was advised to dress modest while in public as a precaution. Everyone has a different perspective. Some have followed these rules their entire life and don’t know what it is like to wear what they want. Others, follow for religious reasons, which I can certainly appreciate.
These are just some of the reasons I feel grateful to wear every single spaghetti strap number in my closet. What about you? Let me know in the comments…
Styling is a definite passion of mine! Nothing compares to the feeling I get when I’ve found someone the perfect look. It instantly changes their demeanor. Suddenly, their head is higher, shoulders are back further, and their gaze in the mirror is priceless. Now, that is exactly why God created fashion…seriously.
Follow these 4 styling tips to get that feeling with every single outfit you will ever wear in your entire lifetime. Plus, I’ve laid out 3 ways to style the Brickhouse Top.
Style Tip #1 – Don’t Buy It If You Can’t Wear It 3 Ways, At least!
Blue Labels Top | Blue Labels Boutique Puff | Bebe Jeans | Steve Madden Shoes
Style Tip #2 – A smile is the best accessory.
BLB Top | BLB Trousers | BLB Statement Necklace | Carlos Santana Shoes
Style Tip #3 – If it doesn’t make you feel good, then it’s not for you.
BLB Top | BLB Lace Choker | Vintage Cami Dress | French Connection Shoes
Style Tip #4 – Confidence is key! If you don’t believe it, no one else will.
There you have it, tips that will have you falling in love with fashion (and yourself) all over again. Which style is your favorite 1, 2, or 3?