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  • 9 Damn Near Free V-Day Ideas (If You Don’t Have A Babysitter)

    9 Damn Near Free V-Day Ideas (If You Don’t Have A Babysitter)

    In a few weeks, Valentine’s Day will be here. It seems like we just kissed our boo for New Years, doesn’t it?

    No matter how quickly it arrived, it’s almost here so let’s celebrate! For me, V-Day is going to be alot different than in years past. I mean yes…there’s COVID. But I also have a 20 month old son who will be celebrating the day with my husband and I. Which to be honest…I’m totally happy with because he’s most definitely my valentine.

    This just means that we have to get creative when it comes to romance. But that’s BEEN a thing since he’s arrived. Sooo, if you find yourself planning a day for your SO and them babies, you might want to continue reading. Here are some ideas on how you and your bae can still share special moments on February 14th.

    Image of girl writing

    1. Each of you write out 10 questions you want to know about eachother that you don’t know. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together. There’s always something new to learn.

    Couple cooking together

    2. Search for a recipe for a good item that neither of you have made before. And cook it together.

    Couple dancing

    3. Turn your living room into a nightclub. All you need is a playlist and cocktails. You can even dress up like you’re going out. Then dance the night away. (And there’s no need for a designated driver.)

    Couple adding face Masks

    4. Once the kids go to bed, turn your bedroom into a spa. Add soothing music, face masks, warm oil to give eachother a massage, and some candles.

    Playing a board game

    5. Turn it into family game day. Pick a board game that everyone can play. Don’t forget favored snacks, fruity drinks for the kids, and adult drinks for you.

    Doing a vision board

    6. Plan your future with a vision board. It might not sound romantic. But planning your year together can be very sexy!

    Watching Movies at Home

    7. Make it a movie night. Let each person pick a rom-com you want to see and spend the night binging on them.

    Filling a photo album

    8. Print out photos from your phone. Then spend the night putting the pictures in photo albums. How romantic would it be to reminisce on what was going on when you took the photos.

    Laying in the bed

    9. Create scavenger hunt with clues that your boo will find throughout the day. And make the “prize” YOU after the kids are in the bed.

    Any of these sound like something you would do?! Let me know in the comments…

    Stay Fearless 💋

  • V-Day Date Ideas When You’re Staying Home And On A Budget

    Valentines Day shouldn’t be the reason you are doing something special for your partner. There are so many ways to show love to those you love without spending a dime. Although, I understand wanting to turn it up a notch just because it’s V-day.

    During these current times, we all feel the need to save a dollar or two. Never know when you might need it. With that in mind, keeping V-Day budget friendly is such a great idea. So, if staying at home and saving a buck is on your agenda.

    Take a look at these date ideas for you and your boo…

    Painting dog

    Paint – Look online for photos or artwork that align with your interests such as musics, travel, fashion, etc. Head to your local craft store for a pack of canvas, paint, and paint brushes. Display the images you found and paint them while sipping on your favorite cocktail.

    Foreign language

    New language – Learning something new together is always a good bonding experience. Search for foreign language classes online and make V-day your first lesson together.

    Playing charades

    Sexy Charades – Write out sexy movies, actions, songs, that you can act out during charades. Turn the heat up with a sexy prize each time you get a correct answer.

    Coming new recipe

    New Recipe – Research a new recipe, pour up a glass, and turn on some music. This will make for a great time. For sure!

    Eating with a blindfold

    Eat blindly – Blindfold eachother with a scarf. Place familiar and unfamiliar foods in unlabeled dishes. Have your partner guess what they are eating. The winner gets to pick a sexy prize.

    Have special plans?? Let me know in the comments…

    Stay Fearless 💋

  • 10 Things You Can Do With Your Love While On Lockdown (So You Wont Kill Eachother)

    10 Things You Can Do With Your Love While On Lockdown (So You Wont Kill Eachother)

    This quarantine isn’t easy for anybody. For me, I haven’t gone stir crazy. I mean not yet anyway. I guess because I worry about my family so much. (Not that no one else does.). But I’m the type of person who talks to my fiancé his entire ride as he heads to work, because I like knowing he arrived in one piece. I pray for his safety while he’s gone. Then we check on eachother by text or phone throughout the day. After work, we talk the entire ride home. Honestly, we are like this anytime we leave eachother. Sooo, knowing that he’s safe and secure at home with me is just the way I like things. He likes it too. (I think. Lol)

    With the stay-at-home order in place, I’ve had more down time on my hands. To say the least. I’ve found myself doing much more social media scrolling and interview watching than ever before. One common topic has been how hard the quarantine has been on couples relationships. It’s kind of sad when you think about. We haven’t been on quarantine but a few weeks, at most. And if you’re bout to kill eachother in this small amount of time, what’s to happen when it gets extended? (Because I’m sure it will.)

    I’m no professional or anything but here are some things we’ve done as a couple to keep the love during lockup.

    #1 Break out the Board Games – Monopoly or Scrabble might have sounded like wack childs play before quarantine but try it now. Loads of fun! No seriously.

    #2 Watch Concert & DJ Live-streams On IG – There are so many artists right now doing music competitions and concerts. This past weekend we watched a battle between T-Pain and Lil’ Jon. It was amazing! We turned it up loud, my fiancé had some drinks, and we danced like we were in the club. Don’t sleep on them. It’s a good time!

    #3 Trying new recipes to make together. Cooking is always a good way to bond. Who doesn’t like to eat. There are tons of places online to get food inspiration and new recipes. Finding new ones should be easy. As a matter of fact, my timeline is full of them. 🤦🏾‍♀️.

    #4 Have a Spa-day! Give eachother a mani/pedi or a massage. Break out those face masks you’ve had under the bathroom cabinet forever. He may have said “no” to a mask before. But it should be easy to convince him now. What else is he doing?

    #5 Play video games…together. You might be used to him doing his own thing when it comes to gaming. I know I am. But change it up and play with him. Try upping the ante by betting a dollar on the game, or maybe the winner has to strip?! He’ll love playing with you after that. Guaranteed!

    #6 Get your alone time. No matter how much you love and adore eachother. We all need a break at some point. When you feel the need to get away, do that! Go to a different room and do your hobbies, watch your “girly” show he doesn’t like, or read a book. Whatever you like to do on your alone time is up to you. This will give him time to do his, too.

    #7 Take a night stroll – Sure, you can certainly go out and take a walk during the day. But I’ve found there to be lots of people out at that time doing the same thing. There’s something romantic about going out at night and taking a nice stroll around your neighborhood.

    #8 Netflix, Hulu, Prime & Chill – I’m sure this is not a new one on your list, by any means. But now you have more time than ever to binge on a a new show or a classic you’ve always wanted to watch. Gather some snacks and enjoy!

    #9 Become An Artist – Creating a piece of art on canvas is simple and super inexpensive. All you need is canvas, paint, brushes and your creativity. Plus, you can online shop at several places, Michaels.com, for instance, and they will bring it out and put it in your trunk for you. You don’t even have to get dressed!

    #10 Make It A Karaoke Night – You can go on YouTube and find lyrics to almost any song. If you don’t have a microphone, use a brush, or anything you can get your hands on. Then sing the night away!

    These ideas should keep the two of you occupied for a while. Another tip is to be patient, this won’t last forever. And when you feel him getting on your last nerve, remember why you fell in love in the first place.

    Which are your favorite tips?? What would you add?? Drop them in the comments…

    Stay Safe & Fearless 💋