I’ve been in full on mommy mode since having my first baby about 5 months ago. Changing diapers, breastfeeding, rocking my baby to sleep, and entertaining him ’round the clock. And I couldn’t feel happier. This Mom thing is definitely what I am supposed to be doing.
I received tons of Mommy tips before my son arrived but there are lots of things that I wasn’t told. Here’s some of the ‘ish no one told me.
You will worry about everything. I spend most of the day wondering if he’s okay. From deciphering a cough to examining poop color and making sure his nostrils aren’t blocked. 🤷🏽♀️
Ambidexterityand doing everything with one handis essential. When my baby falls asleep in my arms, I would do anything to not disturb him. I’m left handed and before having him, I couldn’t do anything with my right hand. Not anymore!! I’ve learned to use whatever hand is free at the time. From changing diapers to washing dishes.
Learn how to hold your pee. Like a previously mentioned, disturbing a baby is the worst! Once they fall asleep in a certain position, know that you are stuck in the position you’re in until they wake up. Get ready to hold it for a looooong time!
Get used to living like a zombie. I haven’t had more than 3 hours of sleep at one time since my second trimester. My third trimester left me so uncomfortable that sleeping was a joke. Then after having the baby, the real sleepless nights set in. Either I’m up feeding and changing the baby or I’m up just staring at him all night making sure he’s okay.
Learn how to make up a song and dance at the drop of a hat. The art of distraction is key when taking care of a baby. Singing a song can quickly pivot a baby from crying to laughing. You can make up anything. They don’t care. So, tune up your vocal chords.
There’s much more I was never told but I’m always up for a surprise. So it’s all good! Cheers to all of the Moms and Dads out there making it happen. No matter what!
Is there something you learned when you became a parent that you did know anything about?? Drop it in the comments…
We are ordering online now more than ever. Personally, I’ve made purchases at places that I would’ve never shopped from before. From curbside pickups to free shipping, it is so easy and convenient. It is kind of hard to turn it down.
But how do you know you’re picking the right size, color, or even if it will look good on you when you get it home??? Here are some tips that can make virtual shopping easier…
I have never been one to say whether or not a color looks good on someone based on their skin, hair, or eye color. I don’t really believe in that theory. Although, I do feel like certain colors can make your hair, eye, and skin color pop! I don’t think a color looks bad on anyone. My only rule of thumb is to not wear a top or dress that is the same color as your hair. That is if you are rocking a bold hair color like purple, blue, pink, etc. Your outfit doesn’t need to match your hair. It really shouldn’t.
Picking The Right Length
If you’re looking for a new skirt or dress, read the specifics of the item you’re thinking about buying. Check the length and measurements of the top, skirt, or dress. Or check the inseam if you’re shopping for pants. Don’t forget a tape measurer!
Picking the Right Size
Taking your proper measurements will ensure that you make the right size selection when you have the “add to the cart” moment.
How To Take Your Measurements :
BUST: Measure under the arms at the fullest point of your bra cup. Make sure to go underneath your arms.
BRA: Measure underneath the bust area.
WAIST: Measure your natural waistline (the smallest part of your waist.)
HIPS: Standing with your legs and feet together, measure around the fullest part of your hips.
Understanding even a little bit of fabric will help you tons. For instance, fabrics like silk, satin, and leather are not forgiving. They have no stretch so you must order your true size. However, any textile mixed with spandex will definitely give you some stretch so look for pieces like cotton mixed with spandex, rayon, polyester, etc.
Hope these tips help you to navigate to your carts easier! What tips would you add? What stores are you shopping from right now? Let me know in the comments…
If I said it once, I’ve said it a thousand times…being fearless is hard! I mean I don’t consider myself the most fearless woman in the world. I battle with it every day. The thing about being fearless is not about not having any fear. It’s about having that fear and acknowledging it. But instead of letting it hold me back from what I want, I say, “fuck it” and do it anyway. I try to live by that motto so much that I have it tattooed on my wrist. Seriously.
I feel like it’s important to let you know that I’m not Queen Fearless, by any means. I’m human. Aren’t we all?? Although, I love a fashion moment. And feel like it’s one of the best ways to show off your fearlessness. There are other ways that I handle my fear that has absolutely, positively nothing to do with fashion .and here they are:
#1. Search for the silver lining in every “bad” situation
This is probably one of the hardest things to do. How do you find a silver lining when you lose someone you love, when the you depended on something to happen that didn’t, love money, etc? It isn’t easy but trust me there is a lesson in it that will help you find that lining. It might not immediately appear but sit down, think about it, and give it some time. It’s there.
#2.Visualize the positive outcome when faced with adversity.
This idea is somewhat similar to finding the silver lining. This idea is just about seeing the positivity before something occurs. Anything can happen at any time. Knowing that, visualize how you can turn that negative into a positive. For instance, who would’ve thought we would have to be stuck in the house for the past 7 months or so?? The positive of that is that we have had much more time to spend not only with our family but ourselves. I consider that to be a great thing!
#3.Say things aloud because there are power in words.
I can’t tell you how much I believe in the power of words. I’ve seen it so many times. For instance, about a two years ago, my fiancé and I took a road trip in a rented SUV. While on the trip, he fell in love with car and said that we were going to have one with our baby seat in the back. Buying a car and having a baby wasn’t in our radar at the time. Fast forward, two years and not only do we own that SUV but we now have a beautiful baby boy. I remember telling him well before leaving my corporate job that I was going to be doing something with fashion in the future. Look at me now, I’m a fashion designer/maker. Words are powerful.
#4.Tell someone because it helps to hold me accountable.
When I tell someone that I’m going to do something. It makes me feel like I have to keep my word. There are so many times when I will randomly blurt out something like, “I’m going to sew 5 new outfits by the week.”
#5.Put it on my vision board because if I see it, I can achieve it.
I’ve said before that I love a vision board and nothing has changed. Again, I’ve put things on my vision board. Only to review it at the end of the year to find that some of it has already come to fruition. Give it a try.
#6.Recognize that people love throwing their fear on you. Sometimes you have to keep things to yourself.
Although, this is self explanatory, You might find it difficult to just cut people off. But don’t let people fill up my ear with their fears. Give them 2-5 minutes of ranting and raving. If they aren’t talking about resolutions after that, why are you still talking?
#7.Read other womens fearless stories for inspiration.
Things always seem hopeless…until you see someone else story. There is always someone doing worse than you or who is more fearful than you. Not that you should thrive off others pain. It just helps to put things in perspective.
#8.Listen and write my own mantras. Ya’ girl loves a good saying to help get through a fearful time.
One of my favorites is simple…”Girl please, you got this!”
There’s no rule book to fearless living. Its about what makes you comfortable enough to give fear the finger and do what you want not what you should,
Thoughts on these tips?? Have any you want to share?? Drop them in the comments…
As you might already know, I became a mom to my first baby in May. Having my baby boy has truly been one of the best things that has ever happened to me. I completely understand now, what a mothers love really is. His happiness consumes me. It’s one of my main goals in life. I never thought I’d be the type of mom to pull out my phone and shows his pictures to any and everyone. Im that Mom times 10. The bad part of it since we are in quarantine is that I only come in contact with the same group of people. My mom, brother, 2 nieces, and nephew. Which means they are the lucky ones who get to view 100 new pics a day!
Although, Im loving motherhood. I must admit that it presents some challenges when it comes to being an entrepreneur. Right now, Im literally holding him while he sleeps on my left arm and typing this on my laptop with my right hand.
Before my son arrived, I didn’t feel pressure like I do now. In my mind, I had an endless amount of time to post, blog, sew, do pop ups…whatever. I was (and still am) a night owl so burning the midnight oil hustling was nothing to me. But now. Oh, hell no…Mama had to make some serious changes. Here is what I’ve learned and how I maneuver since going from entrepreneur to mompreneur.
Take advantage of nap time.
One piece of advice I heard more often than others was, “Sleep when the baby sleeps.” This sounds like great advice. But since Ive never been one to nap in the middle of the day. I found it super, difficult to take a full on nap at 2 in the afternoon. I make his nap time, my hustling time. My baby is a lil’ over 3 months so I hold him…alot. Which means I don’t have much free arm time. So, while I’m holding him, I do as much as I can that requires me to sit in one position. From writing as many blog posts as possible, creating content for newsletters and social media, shopping online for new fabric, etc.
Patience really is a virtue.
Baby boy doesn’t care what I want to accomplish for the day. He could care less if I’m on a business or Zoom call. Not to mention how much sewing I have to do. I throw any frustration out of the window when he needs to be fed, changed, or wants to eat or play when I’m working. I always remember he will only be this small for a short amount of time. Be patient and take full advantage of the precious moments we can share.
Don’t be afraid to ask for an extra hand.
Like most mothers, I want to do it all. Run a business, change every diaper, do every feeding, and not miss one moment. But asking for a helping hand doesn’t mean you aren’t killing it at motherhood. I mean…I just realized that its okay for my husband to take care of him while I’m sewing. He loves him too!
Don’t forget about you.
Speaking of asking for an extra hand. Don’t forget about your own self care. This doesn’t mean you have to leave the house without the baby for hours. I’m certainly not there. Self-care could be having Dad sit with him while you take a bath or do a face mask. Such a small act can reap big benefits in making you feel like you!
Strategize as much as possible.
Create a list of your goals for the day, week, or month. Then knock the items off your list as you get free time. All of your tasks will be accomplished before you know it.
Set realistic goals.
This has been a huge one for me! Before the baby, I could cut fabric and completely sew a dress within 2 days. Now?! Well, it takes about that long to gather the fabric and cut the pieces. Maybe a day or two longer?? Two days to complete a look is no longer realistic. Its a joke really. Now, I set a more realistic timeframe to finish a garment. And I adjust the time, if needed. No use in putting extra stress in myself.
Invest in a blanket carrier.
When all else fails, put your baby in the carrier to keep him/her close to you and keep it moving. I received one during my baby shower. But only planned on using it while we were out. Until one day, I ran across thread in a Facebook group where the women were talking about how they were able to get so much done while their baby was in a carrier. I finally decided to give it a try and let me tell you…it’s a life saver!
I recently read an article about a mother who was successfully running her own business. She despised being labeled as Mompreneur. She felt like it discredited her as a business women. I feel the exact opposite. I find that being a Mom while running a business is a great accomplishment. Back in the day, it was thought that once you become a Mom, you pretty much gave up on your dream. Being a mom while running a business is such a great way to show everyone that this idea is soooo far from the truth. We can do it all now!
Are you juggling motherhood and entrepreneurship? Thoughts on the tips or using the term mompreneur?? Drop your thoughts in the comments…
I’m quite sure that I don’t have to go down the list of all of the things 2020 has brought to us. From the pandemic to marching for justice and the Presidential election…it’s been alot to say the least. I saw a meme that said,
“When my kid asks how about 2020. I’m gonna have to pour a drink first.”
I can definitely agree with that. It wasn’t until recently that I started to notice how much negatively we are bombarded with everyday. It occurred to me one night while I was watching the 10 o’clock news. The news started with a story about a family that lost some family members from the Corona Virus, then went on to how another family had 14 family members that contracted it (6 died), and they then dropped the bomb about how it is effecting young kids more than they initially thought. From there they shared stories of people who were homeless as a result of losing their job, the businesses that have been shut down because of the pandemic. I looked at the clock and it was 10:12. 12 minutes of pure sadness. It was overwhelming. Granted….I agree that we need to be informed about the important things that are going on in the world but DAMN!!! Did anything happen that was slightly good? Did someone rescue a dog or something??
It was at that moment that I realized it was time for me to go back to not watching the news. About 2 months into the pandemic, I had to stop watching the news and scrolling online because it was just too much. But I slowly began paying attention to it again. Not anymore, I’m back to avoiding the news and any other negative stories that come up. I want to be informed but not overwhelmed. Ya’ feel me?
All of this has required me to make some serious changes…asap. For not only my own mental health but also for the happiness for my family. If I’m not happy, how can they be??
Here are 5 things I’m doing to keep my sanity during these crazy times…
(My boys)
#1. Concentrating On The Good Things That Are In My Life Right Now
I had my first baby in May. Got married in July. Im healthy and so is my family. We all have roofs over our head and food. I have so much to be grateful for. Concentrating on that really helps.
#2. Getting Out Of The House
The baby and I don’t go anywhere (at all) except for my moms house. But that doesn’t mean we have to stay in the house all. I make every effort to get out of the house to enjoy some sun and break up the madness. We take drives to look at houses or to explore new areas. You will be surprised what difference a 30 minute ride will make.
#3. Avoiding The News, CNN, and all other outlets that report on whats going on right now
No news, no scrolling to read stories on CNN.com or anything like that. Even when I’m on social media, I scroll right past any stories that are about negativity. It’s just to too much right now. It’s not like I’m missing anything major because people on my life always seem to send a text message or a link to a story they feel is important. Thanks alot, family.
#4. Exercising
Investing in a piece of equipment to go into my home is one of the best things I’ve ever done. I don’t have to worry about outside germs or who will watch my baby. I get to jump on my cycling bike and work out some stress.
#5. Retail Therapy
Even you haven’t noticed…everyone and their Mama have having some type of sale. And I’ve taken full advantage of it! There’s something about getting something new in the mail that gives me a pick me up. Put a couple of dollars to the side and give it a try.
These actions might seem small but they really help me to get through these trying times. Hopefully, they will help you too. Are you feeling overwhelmed with everything that’s going on in the world right now?? If so, how do you deal with it? Let me know in the comments…
If you haven’t noticed, Ive been on a hiatus for a lil’ bit over a month now.I’ve missed keeping you all posted so much.I hope that you have missed reading Fashion Not Fear as much as I’ve missed writing it.
Now, that Ive gotten that out of the way.Let’s get to the reason why I’ve been missing in action.Well, because I had my baby boy!!!!He was born about one month ago.And it has been the best time of my life!!
Although…it started out as the scariest time of my life.
You see, I had a c-section scheduled because he was breech.So, I felt comfort in knowing the day and approximate time that he’s supposed to be born.Per my doctors request, I went to the hospital about 1 week before the scheduled date to take a COVID-19 test.Then left, with a long list in my head off all of the things I had to do before he was born.
Unfortunately, that list didn’t last long.
Two days after taking the test, I’m laying in the bed with my fiancé and my water broke.It literally woke me out of my sleep.“My water broke!”I tell him.He jumps out of bed, completely disregards the hospital bag we already packed, and starts running around the room.While I’m standing in the hallway, leaking, he’s looking of clothes, shoes, calling my Mom…this is the first time I’ve seen him shook.But it won’t be the last time.
We finally make it to the hospital sans pants.Yep, I rode all the way to the hospital wearing only a t-shirt while sitting on a towel.So I found myself trying to put on a pair of my fiancé sweatpants quickly before the nurse that was bringing out a wheelchair made it to the car.Not to mention that my mom, nephew, brother, and sister-in-law beat us to the hospital.So,they were there with their cameras out as we pulled up.They were not allowed inside due to COVID-19 so that was the most they could be involved.
After that, things happened so fast or so it seemed.
I was so anxious about the pain to come. Thankfully, I didn’t feel any contractions.The nurses told me that I was having some but I didn’t feel a thing.A couple of hours after we arrived, my doctor came in the room, gave me an exam and said, “Okay, we are going to get you ready for a c-section.”
They walk me into the operating room for an epidural.The last thing I remember before the baby arrived was holding my fiance hand asking, “Am I holding onto your hand too tight?”The next thing I know,I wake up with the baby laying in a bassinet beside me while my fiancé was sleeping on the couch.Once he woke up he gave me all of the ghory details about my surgery and what he saw.He was shook.Yet again.
Im not gonna lie, healing through a c-section has been hard. Simple things like getting up from a chair and picking up the baby has been difficult because Im so independent.But my fiancé has been amazing and very patient.My mother has been a great help, too.
We are just so grateful that he’s here.The pain from surgery, sleepless nights, trying to decode his crying spells, constantly wondering if he’s okay, figuring out breastfeeding…its all worth it!None of it matters when I look at him.I just want to love on him all day. He really is the best thing I’ve ever made!
So, today starts my first day back from maternity leave.Im back to creating content, sewing, building up Blue Labels Boutique and my fashion brand.All of that while being a top notch mother to my son.I know it won’t be easy but nothing ever is and I love a challenge.
Now, without further ado…meet my son, Aayan.
4 Days Old!
Any tips on balancing it all? Let me know in the comments…
Birthdays are exciting, that’s a universal fact. It’s an occasion that’s held in high esteem regardless of gender or culture. That’s just the way it is, we all share a common interest in giving reverence to the day we were brought into the world. That’s enough reason to think of a birthday as more than a day to stuff your face with cake and post supermodel standard pictures on social media.
It should equally be a time to pause, reflect, and perhaps congratulate yourself for making it this far against all odds. With all that in mind, here are five things you should do before your next birthday. So, when you congratulate yourself this time around, it’ll have a deeper significance.
Reconnect or Bond with a Family Member
As you get older, without knowing it, there is a sudden need to establish an identity for yourself. In the process, sometimes, people get so deeply invested in the struggle that their relationship with family members is affected. Take some time aside on this day to call up a family member you have not seen or spoken to in a while and reconnect with them.
If you don’t have estranged family members, consider bonding with your parents. You’ll be surprised at how interesting they are especially since you’re relating with them on a whole new level. You’ll also get a whole lot of insight because older people do have a whole different outlook on life.
Go for a Medical Check-Up
While there is no one-size-fits-all response to how often a person should go for a medical checkup, it’s importance should be enough reason to do it. Regular health examinations can help spot problems in their early stages which in turn, increases the chances for a responsive treatment. So, if you haven’t gone for a health examination in a while, do it before your next birthday. There’s nothing better than celebrating a clean bill of health.
Have a Fitness Goal
This could mean different things to different people because fitness is not just about staying skinny, it is the overall ability to perform daily activities. At the core of staying fit is having a clean diet and exercising. So, try to set fitness goals and aim to reach them by your next birthday. To get this done, get your Curves N Combatboots gym clothes out and prepare to smash those goals.
Be Kind to Yourself
It seems quite obvious, but the sad truth is that lots of people are quite harsh when it comes to themselves. Self-love doesn’t come easy but one major way to do this is by staying kind to yourself. Let go of past mistakes, accept parts of your body that you do not like, give yourself treats, and also challenge yourself to give up bad habits. At the end of the day, a major part of living is acknowledging your imperfections but also learn to appreciate the wonderful things that make you stand out. How do you do this? Well, the first step would be to practice self-care every day. Self-care starts with putting time aside for yourself and prioritizing your needs, whether that be taking time off from time to time or making an effort to improve your mental well being. It’s also important to say yes to yourself once in a while; hand tattoos, a small vacation, or even a pamper session are all things that you deserve to do if you want to.
Set Up an Emergency Plan
This was saved for last because it’s an incredibly grownup thing to do. Living an extra year is no easy feat, but if you’re going to make it to the next year without breaking down you need to have contingencies in place. The trick here is to think simple, what could happen in the near future to throw you off your game? One easy way to stay ahead here is to set up an emergency fund that you can access in case of an emergency.
With everything that’s going on in the world, taking a flight and going on a vacation is the last thing on my “to do” list. Plus, who knows when it can actually happen.
With no dates in sight of when traveling will be back to normal. I decided to scroll through the photos in my phone to reminisce on I had from trips I’ve recently taken. Unfortunately, I’m not the type of person that whips out the phone and takes a pic of everything in sight. Most times, I enjoy the moment and sites, then say, “Damn, I forgot to take pictures!” after we leave. Needless to say, I didn’t capture even half of the things while on vacation.
Before masks and social distancing was a thing, we would be quick to jump in the car to take a trip somewhere. Needless to say, I’m chomping at the bits to gas up and get back out there. But I will definitely do my part and wait until it’s more safe.
Here is a look back at some of the good ol’ vacation days.
Family Trip To South Padre, TX (Yes, we all stayed in the same house without killing eachother)
Pittsburgh, Pa
Memphis, TN
Road tripping through New Mexico on our way to Denver, Co.
Denver, Co
Have you visited any of these places?? Where are you looking forward to visiting when things are back to normal? Let me know in the comments…
If you’ve been keeping up with Fashion Not Fear, then you know that I’m expecting my first baby in the next few weeks! I couldn’t be more excited.
Early last month, before the stay at home orders and social distancing; my mom decided to throw a baby shower for my fiancé and I. My fiancé loves the movie Toy Story so I looked up some ideas and came up with having a Boy Story themed baby shower.
To say, the decorations were amazing is an understatement. The shower decor was more than I could’ve ever asked for. Feast your eyes on this:
Special thanks to everyone who participated in decorating the shower. And to my nieces boyfriend who took these amazing pics. A big thanks to the amazing gifts we received for the baby. We were truly overwhelmed with the generosity of everyone.
Thoughts on the decor?? Drop them in the comments…
If you were to look up fearless, in the dictionary, you will see that it’s defined as an adjective that means to be withoutfear; to beboldorbrave;intrepid. When it comes to fearlessness, I find that there are usually two kinds of people. Those that are perfectly happy following rules and paths that were set by someone else. They go with the flow in every aspect of their life ensuring that they don’t “rock the boat” in anyway to have a calm, predictable yet fulfilling life.
The other group of people will flip the boat all the way over in order to find their true happiness even though it’s the “road less traveled” and has unknown results.
Fear is probably one of the most powerful feelings we possess. Think about this…What keeps you at a job for 10 years when you knew that you despised it after 2?? It was the fear of not being able to find another job that will actually make you happy while paying the bills.
What keeps people in a longterm relationship despite the fact that they hate coming home because they have to see him or her? I’ll tell you…it’s the fear that you won’t find anyone else. You are afraid to be alone, miserable, and sex-less for the rest of your life.
Fear controls so much of what because the fear of the unknown is too much to bear. Especially if what you have been doing is working. But the truth is…everything is unknown. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Even if you are one that plays by the rules.
Most of my life was spent living in fear. Sitting in a cubicle at the same job for over 13 years knowing that it would lead to nothing but a steady paycheck. Afraid to apply for a nicer car than the one that I was driving because I was afraid to be declined by the bank. Fearful of submitting an application to be a fitness trainer because I was afraid they wouldn’t think I was “fit enough” (even though I spend hours weekly exercising). Staying in a unhealthy, miserable relationship because I was too afraid of what would happen after breaking up with him. Yep, fear controlled every single part of my life. Until one day, out of the blue, I sat for a long while pondering, “what the hell am I so afraid of?”. And just like that, I threw fear right out the window and started making moves.
Being fearless doesn’t mean you’re not scared of anything. It just means that you are putting the fear to the side and doing it anyway. If you truly want to live the life you’ve always dreamed of? Why not try? Hell, I’m still trying to get there! But this journey is much more fun and exciting that what I had going on before taking the leap.
If you are ready to take a leap into “the fearless life”, take a look at these 7 tips that can help you get there:
Haters will hate and there’s nothing that you can do about it. You have to learn to not let others criticism of your choices, affect your path. Remain confident that you will accomplish the goals you’ve set, no matter what others think. Need help coming up with responses? Try these: “It’s nice of you to offer advice but I’m good. Thanks for offering!” “Yes, I’m sure this is what I want to do” “I’ve done my research and I’m on the path to fixing the issue” “Thanks for the referral! I’ll be sure to contact him/her if I need help”
Learning when to keep your business to yourself can be really hard but really effective. A new business ideas can be so exciting that you can’t wait to share with others. But think before you speak. Unfortunately, telling everyone about your next move will only lead to increasing your fear. People love giving unsolicited advice. Keep your new ideas, plans, or goals to yourself until you have gotten to a point where they can see it happening. Let your actions do the talking.
Tip 3: If At First You Don’t Succeed, Dust Yourself Off And Try Again
Trial and error will happen more than you might expect in your new fearless life.Somethings work out the first time and some don’t. That’s okay. It isn’t about how many times you fall down. It is about how many times you get back up. Overcoming challenges is part of the game. Learn from it and keep it moving.
Social media has its benefits and drawbacks, for sure. Who doesn’t enjoy scrolling through IG pics of Bey shopping at the finest stores and opening successful businesses with her seemingly perfect family in tow. Remember, everyone is different and we all have different paths. Comparing yourself to others won’t do anything but hurt in the end. You will never find your own path. The only difference between successful people and you is their drive and determination. YOU are YOU…be confident in that. Find your own path to follow and let it take you wherever YOU want to go.
Life isn’t a dress rehearsal. As far as we know, its’ one and done. Make the most of every opportunity that presents itself and say “yes” more than you say no. You never know what can happen!
Tip 6: Remind Yourself, “What’s The Worst That Can Happen?”
Taking risks for a bigger reward is definitely scary but what’s the worst that can happen? You may be told, “no” and you may even have to try something else. Last I checked, no one died from hearing the word “no” or from failing at something.
I’m a true believer that if you see it, it will come. There are things that I have put up on my vision board that seemed so far fetched. But they have happened. So get to cutting and pinning, girl! There is no vision that is too big.
Always remember that confidence is key, set small goals that will lead to bigger ones and don’t look back! Good luck on your road to fearless living!
Do these tips sound reasonable? What would you add if anything?? Let me know in the comments…
