“I have nothing to wear” This is something that we have all said at least once this year. Come on…just admit it. Endless hours can be spent on shopping, styling, and scrolling for inspiration but that doesn’t stop us from having that feeling. Let’s be honest; loving what you wear is essential to having a good time. Would you agree?! I mean; isn’t this why we put so much effort into it. At least I’ve never met a fashionista who looked into the mirror right before walking out of the door, hated their outfit, and left happily anyway. Have you?
The “I have nothing to wear” problem might be considered even more difficult for dress lovers. Luckily whoever thought that was completely wrong! It’s actually quite the opposite. Dresses are the major key to solving this problem. Don’t believe me? Then check out how to solve the ‘I have nothing to wear” issue even when you are a lover of dresses!
#1 – Build a capsule collection
Capsule collections are essential to maximizing the different looks you can create. A capsule collection is a set of pieces that all mix and match with each other. It can be a set of 5-10 pieces, or 20-30; the more pieces you have to choose from, the options you will have (obviously) But it doesn’t take much to build an acceptable collection. As long as you have good foundation pieces, you are good to go! A denim dress would be an asset in a capsule collection.
Spirit Fashion Show 2017 – Victorian Daisy Dress
#2 – Invest In A Good LBD, LWD, LRD
A good little black/white/red dress (or any color for that matter) that fits like a glove and makes you feel like a million bucks should be all up in your closet. This just means you will always know exactly what to wear when you are feeling the fashion funk.
Boho Queen Maxi Dress
#3 – Dresses Are Tops Too
Just because it’s labeled as a dress doesn’t mean that it has to be worn as one. Tuck a dress into a skirt or pants and wear it as a top. Wear a button-up dress as a coverup or let it play double duty as a kimono.
Body Harness X Always Royal Skirt
Leather Luxe Dress X Warrior Belt
#4 – Keep unique/statement-making accessories on deck
An unique accessory really steps up your style game to a whole ’nother level. A body harness or popping handbag will add something new to your look.
# 5 – Change everything BUT your clothes like trying a new lip color, eye shadow, new hair, etc
Sometimes it isn’t about what you’re wearing. A simple change (not outfit related) can give you a different outlook on your style options. Change up your make up, hair, try a new hair accessory or nail color…you might be surprised how these small details make a big impact. Plus, it just makes you feel different.
You Knead Me Sweater x Denim On The Fray Dress X BLB Accessories
# 6 – Wear Dresses as Skirts
Of course, this isn’t an option when a dress has billowy sleeves and heavy embroidery. But it’s definitely an option for more sleek designs.
Would these tips solve your “I have nothing to wear” problem? If not, what would you add to the list?? Let me know in the comments…
Why are people who are considered to be into fashion often labeled as self-centered or high maintenance?? Setting standards for oneself regarding style isn’t shallow or high maintenance at all. There’s rules to it. As there would be if you were dating a vegetarian, for instance. Here some things you should know when dating a fashionista…
We hate wasting a good outfit on a wack event. It is important for us to know get the details before going out. Where we are going before we get there? Is there a dress code? Will we be outside or inside…the look needs to be right for the occasion.
So, the next time you meet a fashionista run towards them not away. Do any of there sound like you? Which are your favorite or not? Let me know your thoughts in the comments…
Happy MLK Day! I hope you all are doing something today that goes towards what YOUR dreams are of making this world a better place. Big or small. Any positive contribution we add to the world is much needed. Now on to fashion…
Today marks the beginning of a new series, Style Corner. In its debut episode, we feature the Hello Merlot Skirt. This skirt offers versatility at its’ best. Seriously! From its flattering ruching to the sexy zipper that flows all the way from the top to the bottom. Here is why the Hello Merlot skirt is the piece you need in your closet when you’re hustling from coffee to champagne…
Thoughts on the Hello Merlot Skirt? Which style is your favorite? Let me know in the comments…
To clean form-fitting pieces, like leather leggings; (1) turn inside out, (2) wipe down with warm damp towel, (3) spray lightly with Febreze and (4) let it air
This might come as a surprise but…you are a trendsetter. If you didn’t already know, let me be the first one to give you the good news! Don’t get me wrong, the celebrities, musicians, and bloggers whos’ style some immolate are trendsetters, too. But what makes them any more of a trendsetter than you?
Their bank account.Who says you have to be wearing a $350 dollar t-shirt to be a trendsetter?
Their social media presence?Contrary to others opinion, you don’t need millions of followers to set trends. There are other ways!
I can go over a mile long list of excuses but the truth is two things separate us from you. Confidence and fearlessness. They have the confidence to wear it. Along with the fearlessness of not giving a shit what we think about it. That’s it! Sounds simple enough, right?
Let me break it down for you. Following trends and maximizing the trendsetter in you will be too easy with these tips.…
Dress – Keeping It Mod Dress | Model – Drusilla Shay | 📸 – Natey Nartey
When it comes to following trends…
Wear one trend at a time – too many trends at once screams, “Please think I’m cool!”
Make it your own –
Don’t copy, get inspired – I don’t know about you but who likes a copycat?? I’ll wait. Exactly! Let the styles that you see on tv, videos, and social media inspire you. Don’t let it make you want to become an exact replica. Putting a pink rinse on your hair is one thing. But having surgery to make your ears flat like theirs…come on now!
Accept that all trends aren’t for you. Just because someone said it’s a “thing” doesn’t mean it has to be your thing! Clear vinyl tops and skirts are a thing too, but you won’t catch me in one. Just saying…
Pretty In Pleats Skirt | Warrior Belt
When you want to show off the trendsetter in you…
This is YOUR style trend. No one else has to like it.
Be realistic. If receiving title of “top trendsetter” is your goal than you have to know that wearing a fake peacock on a headband won’t go far.
Embrace your crazy – Not peacock on the headband crazy. But just because your squad didn’t run out to buy the same thing, doesn’t mean it isn’t trendsetting. Don’t be afraid to try something different.
Don’t overthink it. Fashion and style is supposed to be fun. Something that makes you feel good. It you put it on and it feels good to you…then go with it!
Fake it tip you make it. Confidence is and always will be key. But that doesn’t mean that there aren’t times when you wear something and think, “is this a good look?”. Be happy with your style choice and wear it confidence. But in the meantime remember that the key to faking confidence…a smile.
Now go out there and set some trends! How do you show off the trendsetter in you? Which of these tips do you find most useful? Let me know in the comments…
It’s cold outside, right?! I live in Texas so I can’t say that this sentence has escaped my mouth too often. But really, it’s cold in most parts of the world.
When it comes to fashion, cold weather makes me think of one thing…staying cozy (and stylish) of course. I’m talking cable knit sweater dresses, suede skirts, pom pom beanies, leather gloves, etc. Needless to say a furry clutch is all up in my fashion wheelhouse.
Fur Baby Clutch bags just dropped at BLB and they are my new favorite. Do I always say that?! 😉 Nevertheless, feast your eyes on these babies.
Looks like the perfect piece to keep you warm, right?! Thoughts on the new Fuur Baby bag? Which is your favorite? Let me know in the comments…
On FNF, I’m always discussing unique accessories and today is no different! The accessory I am talking about just happens to be one that I am asked about the most. No kidding. At each pop up shop, at least a couple of women ask, “What is this?” and “How do I wear it?” And let me not forget the husbands who always refer to it as some sort of sex toy. “I can’t wait to play with this” and “Does she have to wear it with a shirt?” are two popular ones.I guess seeing a strappy, leather harness on a hanger can really get your sexual thoughts going, right?! 🤔
One thing is for sure, if you are looking for something different than look no further than a harness. For a lots of reasons, some of which being that its’ versatility is powerful because it can be worn over any style of top and/or dress. It transcends all seasons. Plus, it is the type of piece fashionistas look for! If you are in need of harness outfit inspiration, feast your eyes on these looks with the Dominating Harness.
Dominating Harness | Sheer It Up Top | Buckle It Up Trousers Dominating Harness | Always Royal Skirt | Borrow BF Shirt Dominating Harness | Marc Jacobs Dress
Do you own a harness?! If so, how do you style it?! Let me know in the comments…
Date night is crucial whether you have been together forever or if this is your first time meeting. It’s a occasion to cut off your phones (yes, cut them off), throw on a cute dress, and spend time with your boo that involves actual eye contact.
I’m sure alot of you are like me when it comes to dresses. I pick my dress based on my mood for the day. Sometimes I want to wear the shortest, sexiest thing I can find. Other dates, I want to only show my shoulders or a maxi. Here are 3 dresses to consider for date night based on your mood.
Too Tied DressLeather Luxe DressMs. Georgia Peach
Which would be your pick for date night…1, 2, or 3?! Let me know in the comments…
Happy 2018!!!! I know what you’re thinking. This is going to be about the same thing that EVERYONE else is writing about. “How To Keep Your New Years Resolutions”, “It’s 2018…What are your resolutions for this year?”, “Lose Weight All Year With These Tips”. Lucky for you, you’re wrong! I’m sure you have had enough of that. I know I have! So on to the stuff fashionistas really make resolutions about…bags!
The Kiss Me and Tell Me I’m Pretty Bag is what you want to carry when you want to people to talk about something other than their resolutions.
You can also tuck the chain and carry it as a clutch.
Isn’t she pretty?! Let me know your thoughts in the comments…
Stay Fearless 💋
Today is the first blank page of a 365 page book. Make it a fearless one.
NYE is probably one of the biggest days of the year that people celebrate. It has always a big celebration for me. The night usually involves high priced entry fees, ridiculous parking fees, food, loud music, a glam outfit and a good amount of cocktails. That has literally described my NYE for as long as I can remember. But things have changed. Actually, I can pinpoint the exact moment it did. It was about 5 years ago, when my fiancé and I made reservations at a overpriced hotel in Austin. After checking in, we spent the next several hours shopping for the finishing touches for both of our outfits. We then go back to the hotel to get dressed to go out. The next thing I know, it’s 2am and I wake up to find us both passed out on top of the comforter. Fully clothed in the same thing we had worn all day!
That’s when it became real that it was okay to stay in on NYE. An at home party of two didn’t sound half bad. If this sounds like your kind of celebration this year, check out these tips to help make your party lit!
📸 by Oliur Rahman
Turn off the tv and use your playlist: The two of you probably watch television together all of the time. Cut it off and turn up the music to create a party atmosphere.
Wear something sexy yet comfy: No sequin and uncomfortable shoes are needed. Keep is simple with a bodysuit and shorts or a simple t-shirt dress.
📸 by Brooke Lark
Snacks & Spirits – Appetizers are perfect for NYE celebrations. They are small and bite-size. Make a spread of you and your boos favorite snacks. Don’t forget to include the cocktails! Create a signature drink for the night.
Gametime – Games of any kind always make for a good party.
📸 by Levi Saunders
Create a midnight ritual – Are you kissing at midnight? Turning up to your favorite song? Making a special toast or resolution? It’s up to you…come up with something you will do when the clock strikes 12!
Cheers to you bringing in 2018 in the best way possible. 🥂
Thoughts on celebrating at home? What do you normally do on New Years? Let me know in the comments…